Coming full circle with following (for now)

I mentioned that I’d solved one problem with my following journey – how to get some practice – but a couple of tango festivals uncovered a more fundamental one: when am I actually going to get the chance to follow in milongas?

The role imbalance already makes it impractical at ordinary milongas: I’m not going to add to the problem by simultaneously removing two leaders from the pool available to followers. But role-balanced festivals had, for a time, felt like the solution …

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Another (mostly) wonderful Sheffield Tango Festival, and feeling really at home in my own dance

The fortnight leading up to the festival was among the most stressful and exhausting of my life. Short version: the place I thought was going to be my new home was withdrawn from the market on the day I made my formal offer for the pre-agreed amount; my plan B turned out to have hidden deal-breakers; and when I viewed my plan C, I discovered that the seller had decided to take the best offer by 5pm that day … and I got to view it at 4.43pm. And that’s skipping a whole lot of steps. What should have been a simple ‘Here’s my best and final offer, let me know’ deal on what became my preferred flat instead turned into some fast-and-furious negotiation, complete with an agent who went AWOL in the middle of it.

Suffice it to say that by the time the festival rolled around, if I hadn’t already been booked into it, I would happily have stayed home and spent the entire weekend sleeping. But I had a wonderful time last year, and suspected this would be the same. It was indeed, and turned out to be the perfect antidote …

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